that'll never happen.....

By Lilith_Rayne, 15th February 2014 18:06:20
Irene Lynne wrote:
No you're not coming across as rude. You're coming across as someone who just wants good old common sense courtesy for this topic & forum...


that'll never happen.....


Worth a tiny shot...

Thanks guys. Its just sometimes, I've been blunt, but people mistook it for rudeness, and I got a warning. -.- Not fun. But I really can't wait for the next Lotto promo. I want the wild.

Why is everyone so negative? Everytime Ow implements a good topic, everyone is so negative about it. If you want to be negative, there's no need to do it in this topic. This topic is for spoilers, and people are fighting and talking about other things... Don't talk about other things and then complain that this topic is getting out of hand. Have mercy!

we weren't... never mind.

anyway, I am also very excited in the new format for the horses.

Thanks Lilith. I just love that even though horse doesn't get a HR, they can still have a pretty background.

*sigh*

Think I'll step out of this topic for a bit until some new information is posted... for now I've gleaned all I can from the spoilers that have been shared and I'm starting to get more than a wee bit annoyed by the incessant redundancy (I suppose that's inherent when everyone wants to be the bearer of "good" news), useless spoilers, and constant back and forth nature of this topic.

Not to mention the people who don't seem to grasp what this topic is for -___-
It's not good for my optimistic side D:

Which is why i stay mostly in my forum, where at least it's controlled and info is legit and verified

Didn't it say at the very top of the topic that no arguing was allowed ?

And there's a reason for that. I'm not complaining, but when this is being just as abused as mine was, which is what prompted me to close mine, then don't you think there's a problem?

Easy there! Lillith is pretty good at contributing valuable and insightful information and thoughts. And while Lillith can be blunt and/or come across as rude, alot of that in many of us older players is from frustrations on how Howrse is run and the lack of accountability sometimes, as well as the progression towards a dumbed down / watered down version of Howrse. And I'm sure Lillith has very good reasons for privatizing her forum, one of which obviously is this new Discussion thread.

eliya2001 has a very good point. Let's be nice! It's very easy to get snarky, rude, and defensive/aggressive when we aren't face to face with all the other players we interact with. And let's face it: some people are more serious about things than others are!

So let's focus on optimism, kindness, and acceptance here. I'm sure if we were all in the same room verbally discussing spoilers, we wouldn't be near as abrasive and rude.

I for one am SO excited for Onyx! I wonder what his "?" section is going to say! I think it would be great if we got another divine that helped out other players, not just the owner (eg: Xanthos, Archimedes, Topaz, etc)

Wow, that is amazing.

*brings in lots of half-full glasses*

I think another interactive Divine would be nice, though if he belongs to a series logic dictates he'll have a similar sort of purpose as the rest of them.

I know exactly what you mean. I had to make a topic in my forum to "rant" about it. (I was really stating the definitions of rude and blunt.) lol

I know all about that....people mistake Bluntness for rudeness on here

Got a topic in my forum about it too :b

It is discouraging sometimes how people are so quick to cry "RUDE!" the instant something isn't covered in smiley faces and flowers.

But anyways... back to the subject at hand. I asked earlier if anyone knew what Onyx looked like in foal form... does anyone have an image?

No one has said you were rude, Lillith_Rayne. Negative? Yes. Rude? No.

What's negative about posting the truth?

He might not even be a foal...Amber wasn't.

Yep, I've gotten 3 warnings for "discourteousness," which of course I can understand that one of those times I probably was going a little too far. Just some people on here.